The Real Treasure.............

The Real Treasure.............

The unconditional love, Purest affection, Real care, Uncounted sacrifices, Selfless services, forgiveness every time.....and many more can define the term parents. Parents the real treasure nothing on this earth is so precious as parents. As children what are our duties for them? Just to keep them with us without caring their feelings and emotions or just to give them food for survival? At their aging time they always seek love and affection, a little care and interaction from their children. In India the problem of adjustment starts with the marriage of a son. Its really surprising how a strong relation of parents and son becomes weak after entering his wife? who is the responsible for this ? wife? Son?  or Parents?

Once the the men got marriage, they slowly moving away from their parents, reasons may be many. But the main reason which is commonly accepted by the people specially in Indian families that is newly married young women. She is the only responsible person who forces her husband  to keep distance with his parents.  May be she wants to spend an independent life away from her in-laws or may be she does not want any kind or interference from her in-laws .  In my opinion the men are equally responsible for it. How they can neglect the sacrifices of his parents? sometimes such so called son become so cruel to them and left them to the old age home and ditched them so badly. ..

This may be  the hardest time  for such parents, It is the murder of their emotions, their expectations. They are forced to beg food or take shelter in old age home where no body knows their needs. sometimes they encountered with various emotional and behavioral problems.  they are enforced  to spend their life without their dear ones. their eyes become swelled they do not sleep whole night and wait for their children till the last breathe.

I have gone through from so many incidents and i am also attached with such old parents who are still waiting their well educated, well settled & civilized children...on which i have a question mark? Are they really well educated, well settled  and civilized who have lost their real treasure of life?